Interventionist and Addiction Professional
Bryan's Biography:
I am alive today because I had family members
in Illinois
who loved me enough to confront my alcoholism and drug addiction. They saved my life. I knew I was dying and my world was
crumbling around me; broken marriage, career loss and insurmountable legal consequences; yet I could not stop drinking! I
was ashamed and disgusted with myself. Pride and shame would not let me admit to myself let alone others that I was addicted.
How in the world could a prominent business executive in corporate America crumble into life centered around
drugs and alcohol? I had surrendered to my addiction and I was planning to ride it out to its deadly end. This
was a lonely and frightening place to be. Left to my own devices I would have died.
Then, I was drowning in a cesspool of alcohol
addiction. Today, I am very thankful to have loved ones who threw me a rope and lovingly but firmly insisted I grab a hold
of it. They did this by metaphorically holding a mirror up for me to see what they have been watching. Addiction robs
addicts of their lives before it kills them. They helped me see how I lost me. I was no longer the provider, the husband,
or the person I wanted to be. They told me the next step would be my life. I knew they were right, but I was still resistant
and argumentative because I was so afraid and full of shame. The alcohol addiction and my ego told me I could stop on my own,
in spite of many failed attempts. Addiction had robbed me of sound judgment and sanity, although at the time, I could not
see this. During the progression of my active disease, I had lost my right of choice, but I did not think so.
My loved ones held firm and left me no
choices but to seek help.On the day my family had a professional intervention with me, I accepted treatment and I
entered a hospital to detoxify and engage into treatment. With lots of love and support, I have never had to take
another drink or a drug since that time. I have reengaged back with my family. I have reengaged back into society as a whole.
I have reengaged back into life with a completely new perspective. I have had the opportunity to experience life abundantly.
It certainly has not been problem free, but I have never had to turn to drugs or alcohol to live through them.
Early in my recovery, I became involved
with alcoholism services in Chicago. I soon graduated Saint Augustine College
in addiction studies and tested for my certification as an alcohol and drug counselor. I founded two successful sober
living environments in Chicago and branched out to Peoria with another
two. Additionally, I began faciltating addiction interventions. I was and still am enthralled
with helping the addicted and their loved ones find help for themselves.
Realizing I needed more formal education
to become more skilled and effective in my new career, I attended DePaul University, Chicago and graduated
with my Bachelor's degree in Clinical/ Community Psychology. Presently, I am enrolled in the MSWprogram at
the University of Illinois , Chicago School of Social Work and Behavioral Sciences.
In addition to my education, I am
also tightly connected to a diverse array of developmental and clinical psychologists nationally should the need arise
to discuss strategy on a case by case basis.
I
am credentialed as Licensed Chemical Dependency Counselor, Certified Alcohol and Drug Counselor and consultant for sober living
environments in Chicago.
I am also a member of Illinois Association of Extended
Care.